Back to Love

Heal your subconscious cycles and behaviours in 5 foundational steps, so you create better love, connection, and sex in your relationship.

Can you relate…

So there’s no instruction manual for being in a relationship and nor do I believe there should be one. Every person is unique and no two relationships are the same. But what if there were some fundamental tools which helped us navigate our relationships with more ease, love, connection and passion?

We go to school to learn math, language, sports, history, geography, etc. but how do we learn how to be in successful relationships? Well, as children we learned about relationships through observational learning. This means we watched what our parents or caregivers did and we copy it. Or we learned about dating, sex, and partnership from friends, movies, TV, outdated religious ideals, magazines, or songs.

Now I don’t know about you but I didn’t have the greatest examples of what a healthy, secure, connected, and passionate relationship looked like. So as I got older I went out into the world behaving like my parents and having unrealistic ideals and expectations around what love and relationships should be. As you can imagine this didn’t result in me having great relationships, strong foundations, or really knowing what it was to love and be loved. How many of these can you tick off?

  • You feel anxious and unable to fully express what you feel and need

  • You feel anxious and avoidant or insecure and clingy which is driving a wedge in your relationship

  • You feel unheard or unseen

  • You feel numb or detached

  • You tend to have the same arguments over and over again without resolution

  • You sometimes wonder if this is the person you’re meant to spend your life with

  • You are bored or routine has taken over your life

  • Passion and intimacy have waned or are non-existent

  • You feel like you’re close to breaking up

  • You struggle to feel love and sometimes wonder if you know what love is

If one or more of these apply to you, I want you to know that you’re not alone. Many couples are feeling exactly the same way.

Luckily with the right tools and support, you can learn another way - a way where you feel you are creating the most empowering, loving, connected, and passionate relationship.

Relationships provide an opportunity to...

Heal so much of ourselves because our intimate relationships tend to trigger us more than others. In a relationship we are challenged to grow, adapt, sacrifice and change to meet the needs and provide love to another person and we have to make a choice if we want to do that with the person we’re with. Yet we’re not often taught how to build healthy and abundant relationships. So I’m going to teach you what you never got and bring back the love you felt when you first met but with better connection, communication, intimacy, and passion than ever before.

I understand how relationships can break down.

I was married for 11 years and in the end, it didn’t work out. I made a commitment to myself that in my next relationship I’d do everything in my power to create the relationship I truly desired.

When I got into a relationship with the love of my life, after the honeymoon phase ended, triggers, beliefs, behaviours, and attachment styles started to come up for us. Even though both my partner and I had done so much work individually when we got together so many things came up and affected our relationship. I decided for myself that I never wanted to be in an unhappy relationship again and that I’d be willing to do everything it takes to make this one feel fulfilling, passionate, and deeply connected.

It was time both my partner and I got help, and we hired someone to support us in doing the work to come back to love. We learned how to:

  • Strengthen our foundations and values as a couple

  • Communicate in more loving and supportive ways

  • Connect deeply with each other

  • Support each other to heal cyclic behaviour and limiting beliefs

  • Grow passion and intimacy

  • Become our most empowered selves

We also sought support on our sexuality which brought a completely new understanding of what is available for us and our sex lives. 

“I believe that relationships are one of the most important things in life, unfortunately, most of us weren’t taught how to be in healthy relationships and we have learned behaviours and subconscious beliefs from childhood which cause us to cycle in limiting or destructive ways.”

 If you resonate with my story, I have something else to share with you…

It’s  time to get real…

Building a healthy, connected, and passionate relationship doesn’t come naturally to most because we weren’t taught how. We can get stuck in behaviours, cycles, routines, and the demands of life.

No wonder, statistics tell us:

  • 1 in 3 marriages end in divorce

  • Up to 15% of marriages are sexless

  • 67% of couples have relationship decline and split up after the birth of the first child

  • Only 29% of married women always orgasm during sex

It’s clear to me that most couples don't invest the time, energy, and attention they need to grow and thrive. Because of this our relationships can stagnate, wither, or die. 

But what if it didn't have to be that way, what if your relationship could be just as passionate as when you were in your honeymoon phase and even more deeply connected and loving than you ever thought possible?

What if love and passion didn't need to diminish over the years, but could get better, bigger, stronger?

What if your long-term relationship was your most trusted source of happiness and fun?

What if you could be healed together, as a couple, so you could feel even more connected and intimate?

This is What I Want For You…

Imagine

Being able to have the love you’ve always desired. Not one based on what we’ve learned from others, society, or religion, but a relationship where you’re going to get better love, better connection, and better sex than you’ve ever had before.

Are you dreaming of:

  • Having more laughter, lightness, and ease in your relationship

  • Having more passion in your relationship

  • Communicating your needs while feeling loved and supported to do so

  • Being each other’s biggest supporters

  • Creating more excitement, fun, and pleasure

  • Growing your intimacy and connection for life

  • Supporting each other to grow and live your best life

  • Building more sureness and security in your relationship

  • Feeling more love and intimacy than ever before

  • Expanding your sex life

I work with couples who are stuck in limiting cycles, feelings, and beliefs and who struggle to communicate and connect in new ways. I help them create an environment where they build deeper love, connection, & intimacy in a fun and supportive container.

Our journey

BACK TO LOVE

Now I understand the importance of foundations, if the foundations aren't supportive and solid we're either going to get hurt or it’s going to fall down around us. We have foundations for buildings, when exercising our bodies, even businesses are built on foundations. So why is it we don’t set foundations in relationships? What I’ve discovered through transforming my own relationship and the relationships of my clients is by strengthening these 5 areas it will lead to more love, connection, and passion and a relationship which can stand the test of time. 

  • When I say safety I don’t mean you don’t have a safe or loving relationship. I’m talking about creating safety in mind and transforming the limiting beliefs we picked up as children. I’ll support you in building a relationship container where you feel safe, seen, supported to express and share whatever is coming up for you, so your mind and body learn how to better deal with challenges because it is met with love and care. Which in turn will strengthen your bond and trust in your relationship.

  • Learning tools to connect to our partners in new and loving ways creates a feeling of more security and allows us to feel seen and appreciated in our relationship.

  • Most of us weren't taught how to actively listen and be present when communicating. Learning tools that help you respond in healthy, positive, and conscious ways helps build confidence that our partners really understand and care about us. This results in less conflict and more resolution.

  • Deep healing is required to liberate the belief systems and habits which are subconsciously driving us. Witnessing, accepting, and supporting our partners to discover what are some of the biggest blocks holding them back creates this deep bond and connection in your partnership.

  • Once we have strengthened the first four pillars something rather magical happens, it opens the door to passion and intimacy on a whole new level. Now you can start to explore your deepest desires and fantasies in a loving and connected way.

After working with me you’ll…

  • Have more understanding of your partner’s needs and how to meet them

  • Master expressing your needs & boundaries calmly and easily

  • Know how to build each other up and empower your relationship

  • Learn how to deeply connect so you feel deeply loved

  • Build intimacy like you’ve never experienced before

  • Understand how to listen and communicate in loving and supportive ways

  • Understand and together heal the core wounds driving your limiting thoughts & behaviours

  • Know how to regulate your nervous system so you can self-soothe rather than act out 

  • Explore your desires and create passion on a whole new level so you can experience better sex

Hear what my amazing clients have to say

  • "I chose to work with Brooke because I wanted to expand my relationship and develop a deeper connection with my partner. Brooke has helped me explore aspects of myself that I never knew existed. I have experienced a deeper connection with myself, and my sexuality, and feel more intimacy and love toward my partner. I feel more confident within myself, especially in the bedroom, and have access to tools to help me navigate any challenges in my relationship. I highly recommend Brooke's work if you're looking to get out of your comfort zone and discover a new level of love, pleasure, and intimacy within yourself and your relationship. "

    Jordan Candlish - Canada (stateshifters.com)

  • “My partner and I came for couples coaching. We had just moved in with each other at the age of 50 after living as independent people. The coaching was hugely helpful in creating practices for greater communication and connection between us. We were supported to see the situations where our childhood wounds get triggered in our relationship thus enabling us to respond to each other in a supportive loving way, rather than reacting and withdrawing from each other in defense. This has helped us to heal deep seated traumas with compassion and understanding, and is enabling us to grow our love to a deeper level that feels like it will keep on expanding. I absolutely recommend Brooke for any couple, and my advice would be to do coaching now while you still like each other, don't leave it till things have gone bad.”

    Rachel - Scotland

  • “We chose to work with Brooke because of her wide experience with a variety of tools. Brooke always worked with genuine care and integrity. She created a space for us to each feel safe and explore our deeper issues and desires around our relationship. Like a magician, she guided us to face our respective demons, always encouraging bravery and holding us with calm interest whilst offering her own wisdom. I discovered new insights into many areas, including maintaining effective boundaries in relationships. She helped me see how I could heal parts of myself with compassion and understanding. She expertly guided us in exploring sensitive topics, helping us to grow and connect more deeply as a couple. We're both very grateful. Brooke's sessions can be challenging but they're also highly rewarding. I recommend her for anyone who's ready to let go of old assumptions and embrace a better quality of life. I feel we could not have found a better coach.”

    Damian - United Kingdom

Back To Love is for you if:

  • You want to have better love, connection, and sex

  • You want to learn tools to communicate more effectively

  • You are ready to heal your childhood conditioning

  • You desire to level up and have the most empowered relationship

  • You want to build a relationship that grows stronger over time

It may not be a good fit if:

  • You’re not ready to dive deep into healing your relationship.

  • You aren’t ready or willing to let go of the past and look to the future.

  • You’re not ready to take accountability for your limiting behaviours in the relationship.

  • You’re not willing to be challenged on your stories and the ways in which you might be stuck.

What The Program Includes

  • 15Y+ TRANSFORMATION CHANGE EXPERIENCE

  • PSYCHOLOGY AND NEUROSCIENCE

  • HYPNOTHERAPY

  • MINDFULNESS & MEDITATION

  • CHILD/ FAMILY WOUNDING

  • GESTALT THERAPY

  • BREATHWORK

  • EMBODIMENT COACHING

  • SOLUTION FOCUSED THERAPY

  • COGNITIVE BEHAVIOURAL THERAPY

  • NEURO-LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING

  • INTEGRATIVE HEALTH

Here’s how it works…

I like to do things a little differently in my couples’ container so not only do you work together to heal, but I also work with each of you individually to create the most transformative experience. I know how our individual beliefs and cycles can get in the way of us truly connecting more deeply in our relationships. So to fully support your relationship growth and empower you, I work with each person to understand the root, the cause, and the reason for what’s keeping you stuck on a subconscious level and then rapidly rewire and upgrade these beliefs using Rapid Transformational Therapy®. Learn more…

And as I’m passionate about helping you create stronger foundations in your relationship I work with clients who can commit to six months of transformative work. This allows you to experience the most amazing results, so you can have better love, connection, and sex.

During our six months you’ll receive:

  • 10 x 90 minute fortnightly couples sessions

  • 2 x 60 minute RTT mapping sessions (1 for each individual)

  • 2 x 2 hour phenomenal RTT sessions (1 for each individual)

  • 2 x Bespoke transformation recordings to rewire unwanted, limiting beliefs and integrate new supportive ones

  • 2 x 30 minute RTT follow-up sessions (1 for each individual)

  • Unlimited guidance and support via Messenger and Email over the 6 months

  • Helpful tools, tips, and tricks for navigating your unique obstacles

Meet Brooke

Hi, I’m a multi-qualified therapist and certified VITA™ Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach.

I have a Diploma in Counselling, Clinical Hypnotherapy Certification, Rapid Transformation Therapy Certification, Integrative Health Certification, Business MBA, Master in Project Management, Kinergetics Level 5 Certification, and Reiki Level 2 Certification.

Working with clients from all over the world I have witnessed the power of creating strong foundations and healing through hypnosis and somatic practices as a pathway to creating transformation.

I am passionate about transforming relationships, especially the relationship we have with ourselves. When we understand our mind-body connection and have awareness of the beliefs, patterns, and cycles which drive us, we can connect to our inner wisdom, heal, and transform our lives to create more love, happiness, and abundance.

In my 1:1 coaching, I help couples heal their childhood programming and regain their sense of connection and intimacy, so they can create a relationship which is better than they ever thought possible.

Though I’ve lived all over the world I’ll always call Australia home. I love spending time with my husband, kids, and family. Love, fun, laughter, and enjoying all life has to offer are at the centre of everything we do.

Better connection, communication, intimacy, and sex are available to everyone!